Do You Often Ask Yourself If Youre Still Happy With The Relationship? Do You Often Look Back To Check Why Youre With The Person Youre With Right Now? Do You Feel That The Relationship Is Brining You Down More That Its Supposed To Elate You? You May Be In An Unhealthy Relationship.What Is A Healthy Relationship?A Healthy Relationship Should Have The Following Qualities:A Sense Of Respect For Each Other. Your Significant Other Should Be Able To Give You The Same Respect He Expects From You. This Is Respect For Your Individuality, For Your Unique Personality Your Sense Of Humor Or The Weird Way You Laugh. Also This Entails A Sense Of Respect For Your Decisions. Accepting Your Decisions And Understanding It. Simply Put, Mutual Respect In A Relationship Means That You Value Each Others Differences And Understand, Not Try To Change The Other Persons Personality. Trust For Each Other. Trust Means Knowing That Your Partner Is Faithful To You No Matter How Many Tempting Opportunities Surround Him. This Is When You See Your Boyfriend Talking To A New Girl In His Class And Youd Know Deep Inside That Your Partner Loves You Enough To Not Fool Around. Everybody Is Entitled To Feel Jealous. It Is, After All, A Very Normal Emotion. It Is How You React To That Emotion That Will Count. Acting On Jealousy Will Only Bring You Down And Will Not Be Healthy For Your Relationship.Honesty With Each Other. This Should Go Hand In Hand With Trust As Trust Is Based On How Truthful Your Partner Is To You. How Can You Trust Someone Who Cant Be Honest With You? Once Youve Caught Your Partner In A Major Lie, Youll Have Doubts The Next Time He Tells You Where Hes Going Or Who Hes Going With.Supportiveness. Your Partner Will Not Just Need Your Support During Problematic Times. There Are People Who Seem To Just Appear From Nowhere To Offer A Helping Hand When Everything Seems Chaotic, But Is Nowhere To Be Found During Happy Times. Its Nice To Have Someone To Share Triumph And Happy Times With. It Always Feels Good To Know That You Have Someone Who Believes In Your Capabilities And Celebrates Your Achievements With You. Fairness. Relationships Should Be Give And Take. Taking Turns In Making Decisions, Be It As Simple As Choosing A Movie To Watch Or A Place To Eat At. This Means That Youre Not Keeping Count Of How Many Times The Other Person Has Made The Decision For The Two Of You As A Couple, And Youre Not Turning The Decision Making Process Into A Power Struggle As To Who Should Get His Way.Separate Identities. This Means Compromising In Situations Where There Is A Difference In Interest. This Doesnt Have To End Up With One Losing His Identity Just To Give Way To The Other Person. Both Partners Should Still Be Able To Maintain Time For Their Own Interest Like When They Started With The Relationship. Open Communication. This Means Being Able To Express How You Feel Openly And Honestly To Your Partner Without Fear Of Having Your Candidness Misinterpreted. Having The Sincerity To Speak Whats On Your Mind, Provided Youve Thought It Out Thoroughly Enough To Know That What You Say Will Be Taken In A Good, Constructive Way.What Makes A Relationship Unhealthy?A Relationship Starts Becoming Unhealthy Once It Becomes Mean, Disrespectful, Controlling And Hurtful. Some People Are Exposed To Domestic Violence And Start Bringing It Over To The Way They Carry A Relationship. A Person Who Has Grown Up To Watching Physical And Emotional Abuse Inside Their Homes Will Most Likely Think That Its Normal In A Relationship.Relationships Normally Need Work. It May Have Started With An Overwhelming Feeling Of Love For One Another, But Then Again, Keeping That Love Is A Totally Different Thing Altogether. Understanding You And Your Partners Differences, Accepting Them And Working Around Those Differences Will Make Your Relationship Easier To Handle. Keeping It Healthy, Will Make You Both Flourish And Grow Not Just As Individuals, But As A Couple As Well.
